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something in your life and feel like your prayers are hitting the
ceiling? Are you waiting for God to answer and wondering if He even
heard you? Do you sense a wall between you and the Father God?
There may be a real key that you have
overlooked. One of the primary conditions to answered prayer is
FORGIVENESS.
"The thief comes only in
order to steal, kill and destroy. I have come that they may have and
enjoy life, and have it in abundance [to the full, till if
overflows]." John 10:10 AMP
God wants us to walk in "kingdom
living" [Romans 14:17]: that is, righteousness, peace and joy in
the Holy Ghost. The enemy does everything he can [lie and
deceive] to rob that from us. So if your peace is gone, your joy is
missing, you don't have that "open communication" with
Jesus...guess who ha been at work? But the enemy can't do anything
WITHOUT YOUR HELP! YOU must give him the open door.
UNFORGIVENESS
gives
the enemy the right to take away your fellowship, your peace and your
joy. And he does. EVERY TIME.
WE CAN NOT AFFORD THE LUXURY [or
BONDAGE] of UNFORGIVENESS. And
it is a bondage. In fact, God Himself will put you in a prison with
tormentors [and when you hold onto unforgiveness, it IS real torment!]
when you "refuse to forgive your brother from your heart his
offenses." MATT 18:35 KJ & AMP]
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We are very faithful to "name and
claim" the promises according to Mark 11:23,24 AMP, but many times
we overlook the CONDITION: And..."whenever you stand praying, if
you have ANYTHING against ANYONE, forgive him and LET IT DROP [leave it,
let it go], in order that your Father Who is in heaven may also forgive
you your [own] failings and shortcomings and let them drop.] MARK
11:25 AMP
"But, but, but..." you try
to explain, "...you
don't understand...you don't know what he [or she, or they] did!! THIS
IS DIFFERENT!"
NO, THERE IS NOTHING ANYONE CAN DO TO
YOU THAT YOU CAN NOT FORGIVE.
Corrie ten Boom, the precious woman of
God who spent years in a concentration camp because her family hid Jews
from the Nazi's, came face to face with the tormenting guard years after
Hitler's reign was well over. God spoke to her as they both sat in a
Christian church and reminded her of the importance of not only
forgiving him, but verbalizing that forgiveness to him. The memory was
horrible, tormenting and bruising to her spirit and heart. She had
"by faith" forgiven him. But now...SHE WAS FACING HIM many
miles and years away from that camp...and that torture. It was as though
there was no one else in that crowded sanctuary. And God waited....
There was suddenly peace in her spirit
and compassion in her heart, as she looked at this now old man, worn and
weary from his own memories. He had been the cause of torment for many.
He, too, had scars from his own actions.
But now a believer, this man was
telling the world about the Savior he had found WHO HAD FORGIVEN HIM....
Corrie went to him and put her arms around him. With tears streaming
down her face, she told him she had been one of those thousands who had
been through the camp where he had been a guard.
THEY CRIED TOGETHER, tears washing
away the memories and hurt, covering it all with the warm oil of
forgiveness.
"Love COVERS a multitude of
sins" and when they are COVERED....they can not be seen any
more. [I PETER 4:5]
"But he [or she] KEEPS
DOING THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!"
Peter had that same problem.
"But, Lord," he said, "How many times do I have to
forgive him [in the same day for the same thing]?" [MATT.18:21]
"SEVENTY TIMES SEVEN,"
Jesus explained.
Now if you are counting...you
still have the problem!
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We GRIEVE the Holy Spirit Who
lives within us when we refuse to forgive...or when we treat our brother
with disdain. "Do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God [do not
offend or vex or sadden Him], by Whom you were sealed [marked, branded
as God's own, secured] for the day of redemption [of final deliverance
through Christ from evil and the consequences of
sin].
Let all bitterness and indignation and wrath [passion, rage, bad temper]
and resentment [anger, animosity] and slander [evil speaking, abusive or
blasphemous language] be banished from you, with all malice [spite, ill
will, or baseness of any
kind],
And become useful and helpful and kind to one another, tenderhearted
[compassionate, understanding, loving-hearted], FORGIVING ONE ANOTHER
[readily and freely] as God in Christ forgave you." [EPH
4:30-32 AMP]
And again, "Be gentle and
forbearing with one another, and if one has a difference [a grievance or
complaint] against another, readily pardoning each other; even as the
Lord has [freely] forgiven you, SO MUST YOU ALSO FORGIVE." [COL
3:13 AMP]
"But," you complain,
"He does not deserve to be forgiven!" JESUS GAVE HIS LIFE
FOR EVERYONE. He loved the WORLD so much....He gave His own
life...[whether we think they are deserving or not]. [JOHN
3:16]
Larry Lea, pastor and teacher, said
once, "DON'T REHEARSE IT...DON'T NURSE IT....INSTEAD, DISPERSE
IT!" A good word.
But what does it mean? Paul told the
Philippians, "I have not arrived yet. But this one thing I aspire
to do: I forget what has happened in the past...I put that BEHIND ME.
Instead, I press forward to all that God has for me to do today and
tomorrow and for the rest of my life here on earth. I want to do those
things that please the Father. I want to walk in what I have already
learned." [Yes, loosely paraphrased.]
Don't dwell on the things people have
done to hurt you. FORGIVE EVERY ONE OF THEM. FOR EVERYTHING. STOP
TALKING ABOUT IT. PUT IT TO REST. PUT IT UNDER THE BLOOD OF JESUS
[through forgiveness] and allow Him to throw it into a Sea of
forgetfulness...never to be remembered again.
It is self-pity that INSISTS that you remember
it and tell others how you have been hurt, demeaned, etc. etc. etc. And
SELF-PITY IS NOT OF GOD.
If you're still feeling sorry for
yourself, if you are still rehearsing it [going over and over it in your
mind and conversation] YOU HAVE NOT FORGIVEN. YOU ARE BEING TORMENTED.
[You're "locked up!"] [MATT
18:34,35]
While you insist on holding onto the
"ought" [unforgiveness] YOU CAN NOT EFFECTIVELY MINISTER! [MATT
5:23] When you hold onto
unforgiveness - you can become sick! Or even die prematurely! [I
COR 11:26-31]
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When you
have unforgiven sin... you can not get your prayers answered. "If
you regard sin in your heart, I WILL NOT HEAR YOUR PRAYER," God
says. [PSALM
66:18; ISA 59:2] [PARAPHRASED] Sin
is DISOBEDIENCE. Disobedience is NOT DOING WHAT GOD HAS TOLD YOU TO DO.
God has told you to FORGIVE.
As part of the Lord's prayer: "...and
forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven [left, remitted and let
go of the debtors, and have given up resentment against] our debtors.
"....But if you do not forgive others their trespasses [their
reckless and willful sins, leaving them, letting them go, and giving up
resentment], neither will your Father forgive you your trespasses."
[MATT.6:12,14,15 AMP]
IF YOU FORGIVE, GOD WILL FORGIVE
YOU.
IF YOU REFUSE TO
FORGIVE, SO WILL HE!
Jesus, while
suspended on the cross of Calvary, His body taking upon Himself all the
sins, diseases and horror of this world, looked over the specific
individuals facing Him. They had spit on Him, cursed Him, beat Him to
ribbons of flesh, torn His body with whips, hammered nails into His
beaten hands and feet. And in some of His last words before His death,
He said, '"Father, forgive them....They really don't know what
they're doing."
The person or persons
that you are refusing to forgive has probably gone on with his life...
not even knowing [and maybe not even caring] how you are hurt.
They don't know what they did. Even if they were "aware" of
the act, they need to be forgiven... so that you can receive
forgiveness.
FORGIVENESS IS AN ACT
OF YOUR WILL. IT
IS A DECISION THAT YOU MAKE
If you are seeking the
Baptism in the Holy Spirit, and have not been able to receive...or pray
in a God-given prayer language... think now whether you are holding
unforgiveness.
If you are unable to
be free in praise and worship, consider...are you holding unforgiveness
against someone?
If you are tormented
by a memory...consider if you are "holding on to it" through unforgiveness.
If you find your
ministry ineffective...ask yourself if you are holding "ought"
against someone.
If you are continually
sick and can't seem to "stay well,".... think about it...have
you forgiven your brother from your heart? Continually?
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